[原创]你不过是想我和你结婚
给小K提个可能的细节哈。马丁在天人交战体会自己想要男人不想要女人的时候,气味可能是很重要的一个环境因素。女人头发,香水,皮肤的气味与男人完全不同,那种耳鬓厮磨时的”小氛围“相当强烈。
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搬家了搬家了
搬家了搬家了
It is not that simple.
The whole business about human (and animal) sexual behaviors is damned fascinating and mind-boggling -- and that's before taking into account the social evoluation of taboos and attitudes.
A gold mine for speculative fiction.
The more I learn the more I am FORCED (! I have no choice!) to laugh at the illusion of conscious control of human behavior. Free will is a fantastic concept -- fantastically appealing and deceptive.
The whole business about human (and animal) sexual behaviors is damned fascinating and mind-boggling -- and that's before taking into account the social evoluation of taboos and attitudes.
A gold mine for speculative fiction.
The more I learn the more I am FORCED (! I have no choice!) to laugh at the illusion of conscious control of human behavior. Free will is a fantastic concept -- fantastically appealing and deceptive.
小K我在NPR上听到这一段访问对话,可以给你当素材。是一个ex-Ex-Gay Movement的弯男讲述他如何加入教会组织想把自己扳直而未果的过程。我觉得好在真实,这人不是特别会说话,滔滔不绝口若悬河的类型,反而可信。同一个节目里还有个此组织里的头儿的采访,他也是弯的,自称是扳直了,而且结婚生子云云。对比着听,有点意思。
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/stor ... Id=6225405
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/stor ... Id=6225405
好明天有空听。
我看过“摩门男孩的坦白”,是作者自传体的one man show , 里面讲他掰直的过程,也是教会一直出钱让他心理治疗,然后他一直压抑想跟男人在一起的冲动。他比马丁强多了,不是完全不能跟女人在一起,有妻子,两个可爱的孩子,能长期在柜子里的多半是这种,特弯的也藏不了那么久。我认识这样的弯人,当然是已经出来的了,他们说,他们当时也挺爱未婚妻,想让她们快乐,想婚姻幸福,想压抑自己,但是长期下来,就是压抑不住,而且是越来越难控制..
摩门男孩后来干脆弯了也那什么,过的比较乱和,想孩子和家庭温暖,被人dump 了伤心就觉得自己怎么这么傻,放弃跟孩子睡前的拥抱,换来的就是这个?光想乱搞也不是大多数人的天性。
我看过“摩门男孩的坦白”,是作者自传体的one man show , 里面讲他掰直的过程,也是教会一直出钱让他心理治疗,然后他一直压抑想跟男人在一起的冲动。他比马丁强多了,不是完全不能跟女人在一起,有妻子,两个可爱的孩子,能长期在柜子里的多半是这种,特弯的也藏不了那么久。我认识这样的弯人,当然是已经出来的了,他们说,他们当时也挺爱未婚妻,想让她们快乐,想婚姻幸福,想压抑自己,但是长期下来,就是压抑不住,而且是越来越难控制..
摩门男孩后来干脆弯了也那什么,过的比较乱和,想孩子和家庭温暖,被人dump 了伤心就觉得自己怎么这么傻,放弃跟孩子睡前的拥抱,换来的就是这个?光想乱搞也不是大多数人的天性。
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This is fr@#king funny. Please continue
Dear Knowing,
This is really funny. I enjoy your novel a lot. Please continue.
P.S. I guess Jeremy is driving a Ford-150 pickup truck, instead of a Ford-15.
This is really funny. I enjoy your novel a lot. Please continue.
P.S. I guess Jeremy is driving a Ford-150 pickup truck, instead of a Ford-15.
LOL. You're so cruel, Knowing. Making fun of histronic gay men.
Wait, at one point you said Pauline's sons are married. Or is it one son who's married and one son, Jimmy is gay and not married? I bet Pauline doesn't know one of his sons is gay? If Jimmy is also married, then if he beats up Martin it would be heavy dose of irony.
It must be a lot worse to be a redneck gay man than a New York gay.
Wait, at one point you said Pauline's sons are married. Or is it one son who's married and one son, Jimmy is gay and not married? I bet Pauline doesn't know one of his sons is gay? If Jimmy is also married, then if he beats up Martin it would be heavy dose of irony.
It must be a lot worse to be a redneck gay man than a New York gay.
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