[讨论]独自思考了俩星期, 在下决心前, 上来咨询哈-关于回国
[讨论]独自思考了俩星期, 在下决心前, 上来咨询哈-关于回国
国内一分公司在北京OFFER我position, keep my current compensation, but not a Expats. I need to consider the following: rent a apartment; my daughter's school etc. 家中某人还得另找工作. 有何建议呢, 我知道这里有好多回流的JM.
It's almost impossible for anyone to respond with this little bit of information. Seems like a pretty big decision. Do you really want to be influenced by strangers' opinions? It's probably more informative to discuss with friends and relatives who know your situation and you as a person, rather than with people who have no idea who you are and what you want.
Do you plan to live in China permanently or temporarily?
What are the options?
Do you want to go?
Does your husband want to go?
Does your child want to go?
What is the value of going? What's the concerns for not going? What's important to you? Money? Career growth? Quality of life?
Do you plan to live in China permanently or temporarily?
What are the options?
Do you want to go?
Does your husband want to go?
Does your child want to go?
What is the value of going? What's the concerns for not going? What's important to you? Money? Career growth? Quality of life?
一言难尽.
Jun got the point. I was thinking to go back just for 3-4 years, and my daughter can have a few years Chinese education. if she likes we may decide late to stay in China permantly.
I have a very good position in Canada as well. pretty good salary plus company car, but it is very busy and have to work 10 hours a day and some weekends.
My husband doesn't want to go back at this time, he thinks if this is a expats offer, he would agree.
家庭意见不一, 才问道于网啊.
我在上海生活过十年, 北京只是在大学的时候去旅游过,
Jun got the point. I was thinking to go back just for 3-4 years, and my daughter can have a few years Chinese education. if she likes we may decide late to stay in China permantly.
I have a very good position in Canada as well. pretty good salary plus company car, but it is very busy and have to work 10 hours a day and some weekends.
My husband doesn't want to go back at this time, he thinks if this is a expats offer, he would agree.
家庭意见不一, 才问道于网啊.
我在上海生活过十年, 北京只是在大学的时候去旅游过,
I don't mean to be rude, but I think this approach is backward.家庭意见不一, 才问道于网啊.
My guess is that you want to take the offer but your husband doesn't, and you wonder if you can find any supporting argument on the Web. Am I mistaken in my assumption?
At least 3 people's lives will be affected, and their feelings and opinions should be the only consideration. Strangers on the Web, despite their (our) good intentions, cannot and should not be a factor in your decision.
Just my 2 cents. Regard it with a grain of salt.
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June 写道
Trust me, whatever you said wouldn't affect my decision, however, the information shared here are valuable.
Putaopi:
ha! your assumption doesn't apply to me. Be honest, I intent to turn this offer down for many reasons. But I worry this mightbe once in a life chance for me. So looking for information wildly and make sure I won't regret.My guess is that you want to take the offer but your husband doesn't, and you wonder if you can find any supporting argument on the Web. Am I mistaken in my assumption?
Trust me, whatever you said wouldn't affect my decision, however, the information shared here are valuable.
Putaopi:
Putaopi 呀, you read my mind.Lafayette是想找人聊聊吧?也整理一下自己的思绪,倒不见得是指望网上的人替她做决定。
做为有孩子的职业女性,家庭事业兼顾,在国外是很辛苦的。国内工作虽然不见得更清闲,但是有亲戚和家人的support, 服务业也比较发达,起码家事有人帮忙,是个好处。
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Putaopi 这番话在算法语言里叫做Greedy Algorithms:
“Algorithms for optimization problems typically go through a sequence of steps, with a set of choices at each step. For many optimization problems, using dynamic programming to determine the best choices is overkill; simpler, more efficient algorithms will do. A greedy algorithm always makes the choice in the hope that this choice will lead to a globally optimal solution.” (Introduction to Algorithms.)
“Algorithms for optimization problems typically go through a sequence of steps, with a set of choices at each step. For many optimization problems, using dynamic programming to determine the best choices is overkill; simpler, more efficient algorithms will do. A greedy algorithm always makes the choice in the hope that this choice will lead to a globally optimal solution.” (Introduction to Algorithms.)
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我吹毛求疵地说:小K是假当妈的?Knowing wrote:真的不是讽刺大家。。看Lafayette 写的我就觉得她已经挺考虑孩子了,丈夫显然是嫌待遇还不够好,也不是什么坚决反对。换了我根本想不了那么多:expat package 不就是多住房补贴孩子教育补贴么?真想回去几年也不在乎这些。孩子跟那儿上学都差不多,小时候有点国际经验有好处没坏处。都是小事儿。大家显然是真的当妈的,比我想的周到多了。
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