太TNND真实了, 所以我信仰婚前同居呢.
还是跟中国文化有关系, 太太需要经济安全感, 第一先去逼老公多赚钱, 而不是自己出去赚出想要的. 己所不欲勿施于人, 这一点上, 我不是不同情男人的.
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- 2004-07-09 5:57
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: 鼓吹: Spiderman II
- Replies: 8
- Views: 13850
- 2004-07-08 12:48
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: [原创小说] 皆可抛
- Replies: 249
- Views: 201428
- 2004-07-08 7:29
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: [原创小说] 皆可抛
- Replies: 249
- Views: 201428
- 2004-07-07 15:26
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: tbs的洁版SATC(短)
- Replies: 24
- Views: 34132
- 2004-07-07 15:14
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: tbs的洁版SATC(短)
- Replies: 24
- Views: 34132
- 2004-07-07 14:33
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: tbs的洁版SATC(短)
- Replies: 24
- Views: 34132
Nip/Tuck is a typical example of excellent character studies without a likable (ie, 可带入)character. If you feel you need to like, identify with, and root for a character to enjoy a story, forget it, it's not for you. The story is about two private practice plastic surgeons in their middle age, one a ...
- 2004-07-07 14:02
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: tbs的洁版SATC(短)
- Replies: 24
- Views: 34132
- 2004-07-07 8:14
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: Runaway Jury (Ask Whoever is an fan of John Grisham)
- Replies: 27
- Views: 35926
- 2004-07-07 6:37
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: 经济学的初恋(依然没更新,不过我保证很快就抗)
- Replies: 12
- Views: 19247
- 2004-07-07 6:35
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: 大话西游--印度自助行(更新一小段,慢慢来)
- Replies: 33
- Views: 51731
- 2004-07-06 6:56
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: 大话西游--印度自助行(更新一小段,慢慢来)
- Replies: 33
- Views: 51731
- 2004-07-02 10:34
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: In cold blood
- Replies: 18
- Views: 29058
猫咪头, 有些死刑犯和他们的律师当然发明出各种理由来推卸责任, 希望减刑, 不过说"I don't feel what you feel"的话恐怕不能激发他人的同情. Lack of empathy是一个被多方面记载研究过的现象, 有些psychopath并没有发展到杀人犯罪的地步(我怀疑这些人里有的跑到Enron, Arthur Anderson, Halliburton去当了executives), 但有这种personality disorder的人都有这个问题/症状. 心理学, 很遗憾, 还不能算科学, 因为还停留在描述自然现象的程度, 没有达到解释原理发现规律的地步. 这个无法解释为...
- 2004-07-02 8:42
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: In cold blood
- Replies: 18
- Views: 29058
- 2004-07-02 6:08
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: In cold blood
- Replies: 18
- Views: 29058
And the series with a female Chinese American detective... I read "In Cold Blood" a long time ago. IIRC, Truman Capote did extensive research on the case, followed the killers' travel route, talked to many many people, and interviewed at least one of the killers on death row. He was troubled by the ...
Meat loaf? Last night TNT showed Unforgiven again. I thought to myself, a piece of art like this renders critique useless and pointless. I can analyze, frame by frame, word for word, why this is so fine, but that would just be bullsh*t. A critic is someone who tries to rub off a little greatness of ...
- 2004-07-01 14:28
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: In cold blood
- Replies: 18
- Views: 29058
- 2004-07-01 13:43
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: In cold blood
- Replies: 18
- Views: 29058
- 2004-07-01 12:40
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: In cold blood
- Replies: 18
- Views: 29058
I happened to have read this book by Truman Capote (he also wrote "Breakfast at Tiffany's"). It was perhaps one of the most influencial nonfiction writings in American literature. Before that, novels were considered serious literature, while nonfiction was little better than tabloid or topical journ...
- 2004-07-01 6:26
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: 告别布拉格(小说,抗15,16,17)
- Replies: 72
- Views: 73237
- 2004-06-30 6:52
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: 告别布拉格(小说,抗15,16,17)
- Replies: 72
- Views: 73237
- 2004-06-29 13:01
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: 猫言乱语之华氏911 (完)
- Replies: 14
- Views: 25248
Perhaps Michael Moore is as much of an extremist as Bill O'Reilly, but the reality is that the people, the public, the mass, never listen to reason, and their fleeting attention span can never absorb anything less than the screaming mud-slinging inflmmatory one-sided propaganda. At least Moore is no...
- 2004-06-28 11:11
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: 猫言乱语之华氏911 (完)
- Replies: 14
- Views: 25248
研究表明,一点儿不吃碳水化合物的人很容易抑郁症。 Reference, please? I'll print it out and share it with my coworker. Vegetables are high in insoluble fiber, which is just cellulose. We humans don't have the enzyme like cows do, therefore cannot break down cellulose and absorb it. Sugar, starch, and soluble fiber in vegeta...
- 2004-06-28 10:18
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: 猫言乱语之华氏911 (完)
- Replies: 14
- Views: 25248
- 2004-06-28 9:46
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: <<月亮和六便士>>读后感:不内疚
- Replies: 56
- Views: 65581
- 2004-06-28 8:54
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: <<月亮和六便士>>读后感:不内疚
- Replies: 56
- Views: 65581
- 2004-06-25 12:41
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: <<月亮和六便士>>读后感:不内疚
- Replies: 56
- Views: 65581
I have tried a number of times to write down my thoughts about art and human nature etc, but given up every time. Not because I have nothing to say, but because my argument is dry and boring and abstract and just plain not enjoyable to read -- more like a half-assed thesis than something to share wi...
- 2004-06-25 9:41
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: <<月亮和六便士>>读后感:不内疚
- Replies: 56
- Views: 65581
还有一点, Strickland 的英国太太并不爱他, 他对她来说也不过是长期饭票, 穿衣吃饭. 不过大家按着主流社会的要求过正常的日子罢了, 多半连sex也没有(维多利亚时代啊), 未必有什么爱情. 而且, 他把家庭扔到一边, 因为他们跟追求理想是矛盾的. 跟Ata在一起, 与理想是合拍甚至互相促进的(想想高更画的那些土女), 而她给他的是纯朴诚实的依恋, 他心肠虽硬, 虽自私, 但并非天生邪恶, 未必不会感动, 反而给了他的性格一点最后的人气. 我不认为他能够承受被别人抛弃。 我不同意, 他不是那种通过恋爱/被爱维持自尊的人, 爱情或其他高尚的情操对他根本就是GP, 他的整个存在就是被一件...
- 2004-06-24 15:31
- Forum: 恶人谷
- Topic: <<月亮和六便士>>读后感:不内疚
- Replies: 56
- Views: 65581
艺术魔鬼
(我怕写这个话题, 主要是怕写出来干巴巴的, 不是猜想就是理论) 艺术魔鬼 1. 我家里的那本月亮和六便士是从旧货店里淘来的, 薄薄的一本纸皮书, 通俗名著丛书之类, 后封皮上的简介里有一句P话: (The author) leaves the reader with a disturbing picture of a man possessed by the devil. 我昏倒. 这写封皮儿的真没水平. 这个魔鬼, 不就是被人呕歌吹捧的艺术理想嘛! 据说诗人画家多有得狂躁忧郁症(bipolar disorder) 的倾向, 既然得狂燥忧郁症是跟某个遗传基因有关, 那么想必艺术天才也至少部分...